[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/moze-za-to-vychova\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/moze-za-to-vychova\/","headline":"M\u00f4\u017ee za to v\u00fdchova?","name":"M\u00f4\u017ee za to v\u00fdchova?","description":"Asi to vid\u00ed ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z n\u00e1s, no niektor\u00ed predt\u00fdm zatv\u00e1raj\u00fa o\u010di a in\u00ed to ber\u00fa zasa \u00faplne opa\u010dne. Vrav\u00edm o povahe Slov\u00e1kov, kedy jeden z\u00e1vid\u00ed druh\u00e9mu aj ten posledn\u00fd cent vo va\u010dku a trocha \u0161\u0165astia. Neviem, pre\u010do m\u00e1me tak\u00fato <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/moze-za-to-vychova\/\">\u010c\u00edst d\u00e1le ...<\/a>","datePublished":"2018-01-23","dateModified":"2018-01-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/32bc2d377216483c132a3bbf038b8838926e0616f1b3d0e9cb50d997f0b052ba?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/32bc2d377216483c132a3bbf038b8838926e0616f1b3d0e9cb50d997f0b052ba?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"extip.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286268_w2027_t1521831837.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286268_w2027_t1521831837.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/moze-za-to-vychova\/","about":["\u017deny"],"wordCount":473,"articleBody":"Asi to vid\u00ed ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z n\u00e1s, no niektor\u00ed predt\u00fdm zatv\u00e1raj\u00fa o\u010di a in\u00ed to ber\u00fa zasa \u00faplne opa\u010dne. Vrav\u00edm o povahe Slov\u00e1kov, kedy jeden z\u00e1vid\u00ed druh\u00e9mu aj ten posledn\u00fd cent vo va\u010dku a trocha \u0161\u0165astia. Neviem, pre\u010do m\u00e1me tak\u00fato povahu. Bu\u010f ju ded\u00edme, alebo sme tak vychov\u00e1van\u00ed. Asi oboje z t\u00fdchto faktorov hraj\u00fa svoju rolu. Odmali\u010dka, kedy si h\u013ead\u00e1me prv\u00fdch kamar\u00e1tov, n\u00e1m v\u0161etci starostlivo vravia, ktor\u00ed kamar\u00e1ti s\u00fa pre n\u00e1s vhodn\u00ed a ktor\u00ed nie. Chc\u00fa, aby sme sa kamar\u00e1tili s niek\u00fdm dokonal\u00fdm, ktor\u00fd ani len nepomysl\u00ed na nejak\u00fd ten bl\u00e1zniv\u00fd n\u00e1pad. Ak sme si tak\u00e9ho kamar\u00e1ta na\u0161li a dobre sa u\u010dil, bol vo viacer\u00fdch smeroch \u00faspe\u0161nej\u0161\u00ed, d\u00e1vali n\u00e1m to poc\u00edti\u0165. &#8220; Pre\u010do sa neu\u010d\u00ed\u0161 tak dobre, ako Pa\u013eko?&#8220; alebo &#8220; Pa\u013eko by tak\u00fato vec nespravil.&#8220; &#8222;Pozri ako sa spr\u00e1va Pa\u013eko.&#8220; Tak\u00fdmito podobn\u00fdmi vetami n\u00e1s bud\u00fa &#8222;bombardova\u0165&#8220; z ka\u017ed\u00fdch str\u00e1n, pokia\u013e sme si na\u0161li toho dokonal\u00e9ho kamar\u00e1ta. Spravia z neho ako keby n\u00e1\u0161 vzor. Aj ak je to n\u00e1\u0161 dobr\u00fd kamar\u00e1t a mali sme ho radi, vytv\u00e1ra sa v n\u00e1s ur\u010dit\u00e1 z\u00e1vis\u0165, ktor\u00e1 speje k tomu, aby sme mali pocit, \u017ee sme lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u0161etci &#8220; Pa\u013ekovia&#8220; na svete. Toto je jeden z d\u00f4vodov, pre\u010do sa nesk\u00f4r v dospelosti spr\u00e1vame ako mal\u00e9 deti a druh\u00fdm &#8222;Pa\u013ekom&#8220; nedoprajeme a z\u00e1vid\u00edme. Ak aj v\u00e1m z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, aby sme s det\u00ed nevychov\u00e1vali z\u00e1vistliv\u00fdch lakomcov, pre\u010d\u00edtajte si \u010fal\u0161ie zauj\u00edmav\u00e9 postrehy a n\u00e1zory na podobn\u00fa t\u00e9mu. Vr\u00e1tim sa ale sp\u00e4\u0165 a uvediem druh\u00fd faktor, ktor\u00fd m\u00f4\u017ee vpl\u00fdva\u0165 na t\u00fato na\u0161u slovensk\u00fa povahu. St\u00e1le po\u010d\u00favame, \u017ee doba je zl\u00e1 a ka\u017ed\u00fd ide aj cez m\u0155tvoly. Toto tvrdenie ur\u010dite potvrd\u00ed ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed, no u\u017e podstatne menej si ich uvedom\u00ed, \u017ee keby mali pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165, boli by tak\u00ed ist\u00ed a v tejto istej viere vychov\u00e1vaj\u00fa aj svoje deti, vraj aby sa mali dobre. &#8222;Mus\u00ed\u0161 h\u013eadie\u0165 len na seba, \u010do \u0165a po ostatn\u00fdch?&#8220; &#8220; Tak\u00e1 je doba, nesmie\u0161 by\u0165 tak\u00fd citliv\u00fd!&#8220; Tak\u00fdmito vetami vychov\u00e1vame \u010fal\u0161ie gener\u00e1cie a potom sa \u010dudujeme, \u017ee sa ten svet nemen\u00ed. Potom len nad\u00e1vame na ostatn\u00fdch, no pritom zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eame rovnako. Tak o \u010do sme potom lep\u0161\u00ed? Ak chcete niekoho porovn\u00e1va\u0165 a kritizova\u0165, niekoho moralizova\u0165, za\u010dnite v prvom rade od seba, a\u017e potom m\u00e1te pr\u00e1vo dirigova\u0165 ostatn\u00fdch, a\u017e ak sami budete schopn\u00ed \u00eds\u0165 pr\u00edkladom.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"M\u00f4\u017ee za to v\u00fdchova?","item":"https:\/\/www.extip.sk\/moze-za-to-vychova\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]